I can't and don't do it all.

Hold on and steady yourselves, folks. This is a long and intense one.

I recently had some say to me, "I don't know how you do it all," and it took all of me not to break down and cry at them that I can't and don't "do it all." No one can and no one should. At the very least, not all at once.

Facebook has the ability to make us all look far more stable and successful than the mercurial beings that we are in reality. Everyone is drawn to paint themselves as the perfect career woman or homemaker, mother, popular chick, or all of the above; and when we don't conform to that, we're told to stop complaining or told that we're exaggerating.